### love When I'm optimistic that our priors can interact to take revolutionary but rationalized next action, that's when I fall in love with you. ### humility - some people think "humble and humility is the way to trick the others to make them feel superior so that they willingly give out help to you who may not be the one that needs that help most", but embedding the possibility of wrong (ignorance prior) is effective (MH algorithm, courage to visit lower valley by luckily unlucky then luckily lucky to find new modal) - belief that attribute luck more than talent for current achievement. given this definition, i'm struggling how to feign humility. as i believe in my effort - talent and attribute all success so far (if there is any) to this talent. - weight of my good job placement may have higher weight ### leadership - influence on other ppl, 1.support staff, build effective team, allow ppl to grow, become leaders themselves - follow them and they'll follow you - change doesn't need permission, have emphaty (the ability to understand and share the feelings of another) ## honest --- from wikipedia's Emotions - [Acceptance](x-dictionary:r:'Acceptance?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Acceptance") - [Admiration](x-dictionary:r:'Admiration?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Admiration") - [Affection](x-dictionary:r:'Affection?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Affection") - [Amusement](x-dictionary:r:'Amusement?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Amusement") - [Anger](x-dictionary:r:'Anger?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Anger") - [Angst](x-dictionary:r:'Angst?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Angst") - [Anguish](x-dictionary:r:'Anguish?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Anguish") - [Annoyance](x-dictionary:r:'Annoyance?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Annoyance") - [Anticipation](x-dictionary:r:'Anticipation?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Anticipation") - [Anxiety](x-dictionary:r:'Anxiety?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Anxiety") - [Apathy](x-dictionary:r:'Apathy?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Apathy") - [Arousal](x-dictionary:r:'Arousal?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Arousal") - [Awe](x-dictionary:r:'Awe?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Awe") - [Belongingness](x-dictionary:r:'Belongingness?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Belongingness") - [Boredom](x-dictionary:r:'Boredom?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Boredom") - [Confidence](x-dictionary:r:'Confidence?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Confidence") - [Confusion](x-dictionary:r:'Confusion?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Confusion") - [Contempt](x-dictionary:r:'Contempt?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Contempt") - [Contentment](x-dictionary:r:'Contentment?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Contentment") - [Courage](x-dictionary:r:'Courage?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Courage") - [Curiosity](x-dictionary:r:'Curiosity?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Curiosity") - [Depression](x-dictionary:r:'Depression_(mood)?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Depression (mood)") - [Desire](x-dictionary:r:'Desire?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Desire") - [Determination](x-dictionary:r:'Determination?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Determination") - [Disappointment](x-dictionary:r:'Disappointment?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Disappointment") - [Disgust](x-dictionary:r:'Disgust?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Disgust") - [Distrust](x-dictionary:r:'Distrust?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Distrust") - [Doubt](x-dictionary:r:'Doubt?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Doubt") - [Ecstasy](x-dictionary:r:'Ecstasy_(emotion)?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Ecstasy (emotion)") - [Elevation](x-dictionary:r:'Elevation_(emotion)?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Elevation (emotion)") - [Embarrassment](x-dictionary:r:'Embarrassment?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Embarrassment") - [Emotional Detachment](x-dictionary:r:'Emotional_detachment?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Emotional detachment") - Empathy - [Enthusiasm](x-dictionary:r:'Enthusiasm?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Enthusiasm") - [Envy](x-dictionary:r:'Envy?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Envy") - [Euphoria](x-dictionary:r:'Euphoria?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Euphoria") - [Faith](x-dictionary:r:'Faith?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Faith") - [Fear](x-dictionary:r:'Fear?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Fear") - [Frustration](x-dictionary:r:'Frustration?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Frustration") - [Gratification](x-dictionary:r:'Gratification?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Gratification") - [Gratitude](x-dictionary:r:'Gratitude?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Gratitude") - [Greed](x-dictionary:r:'Greed?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Greed") - [Grief](x-dictionary:r:'Grief?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Grief") - [Guilt](x-dictionary:r:'Guilt_(emotion)?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Guilt (emotion)") - [Happiness](x-dictionary:r:'Happiness?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Happiness") - [Hatred](x-dictionary:r:'Hatred?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Hatred") - [Hope](x-dictionary:r:'Hope?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Hope") - [Horror](x-dictionary:r:'Horror_and_terror?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Horror and terror") - [Hostility](x-dictionary:r:'Hostility?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Hostility") - [Humiliation](x-dictionary:r:'Humiliation?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Humiliation") - [Interest](x-dictionary:r:'Interest_(emotion)?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Interest (emotion)") - [Jealousy](x-dictionary:r:'Jealousy?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Jealousy") - [Joy](x-dictionary:r:'Joy?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Joy") - [Kindness](x-dictionary:r:'Kindness?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Kindness") - [Limerence](x-dictionary:r:'Limerence?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Limerence") - [Loneliness](x-dictionary:r:'Loneliness?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Loneliness") - [Love](x-dictionary:r:'Love?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Love") - [Lust](x-dictionary:r:'Lust?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Lust") - [Nostalgia](x-dictionary:r:'Nostalgia?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Nostalgia") - [Outrage](x-dictionary:r:'Outrage_(emotion)?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Outrage (emotion)") - [Panic](x-dictionary:r:'Panic?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Panic") - [Passion](x-dictionary:r:'Passion_(emotion)?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Passion (emotion)") - [Pity](x-dictionary:r:'Pity?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Pity") - [Pleasure](x-dictionary:r:'Pleasure?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Pleasure") - [Pride](x-dictionary:r:'Pride?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Pride") - [Rage](x-dictionary:r:'Rage_(emotion)?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Rage (emotion)") - [Regret](x-dictionary:r:'Regret?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Regret") - [Rejection](x-dictionary:r:'Social_rejection?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Social rejection") - [Relief](x-dictionary:r:'Relief_(emotion)?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Relief (emotion)") - [Remorse](x-dictionary:r:'Remorse?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Remorse") - [Resentment](x-dictionary:r:'Resentment?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Resentment") - [Sadness](x-dictionary:r:'Sadness?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Sadness") - [Saudade](x-dictionary:r:'Saudade?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Saudade") - [Schadenfreude](x-dictionary:r:'Schadenfreude?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Schadenfreude") - [Self-pity](x-dictionary:r:'Self-pity?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Self-pity") - [Shame](x-dictionary:r:'Shame?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Shame") - [Shock](x-dictionary:r:'Acute_stress_reaction?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Acute stress reaction") - [Shyness](x-dictionary:r:'Shyness?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Shyness") - [Social connection](x-dictionary:r:'Social_connection?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Social connection") - [Sorrow](x-dictionary:r:'Sorrow_(emotion)?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Sorrow (emotion)") - [Suffering](x-dictionary:r:'Suffering?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Suffering") - [Surprise](x-dictionary:r:'Surprise_(emotion)?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Surprise (emotion)") - [Suspicion](x-dictionary:r:'Suspicion_(emotion)?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Suspicion (emotion)") - [Trust](x-dictionary:r:'Trust_(social_science)?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Trust (social science)") - [Wonder](x-dictionary:r:'Wonder_(emotion)?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Wonder (emotion)") - [Worry](x-dictionary:r:'Worry?lang=en&signature=com.apple.DictionaryApp.Wikipedia' "Worry")